What is the worst way you have ever ended a relationship? Was it by phone, over text or did you actually do it face to face. My biggest fear is having to break up with someone face to face because I don't know how they are going to react. Have you ever had 'ghosting' happen to you?
Texting, social networking, and email has changed the way people date.
This is awful! In fact, this is so awful that I have interrupted my whole telling of the weird guys I met yesterday to bring shocking news...apparently people now just complete ignore and avoid you as a way of breaking up! What on earth is happening? According to the video people do this even in long term relationships that have lasted years!
'Ghosting' is completely unacceptable!
You are essentially prohibiting someone from moving on and are just being a childish coward.
Watch the video people!
Grace x
I cannot think of a worst way to be broken up with! How would you get any closure?! I really hope ghosting is an urban myth
It’s not an urban myth. You get no closure and it had me in bed for days. And i almost confronted the coward at work, the only place i knew i could find him, but i am to mature to cause a scene.
Oh you absolutely should confront him! Walk right up to him, throw a glass of water in his face and scream! He deserves a scene
hahahahaha that’s hilarious!
Don’t just throw the water, just lob the entire thing, glass, acid, water!
I know right! I mean, how long does a phone conversation or a meet up take? If you are that busy I’d even prefer a text (even though that’s rather vile too), you can’t just disappear! Oh my!
Chasynleigh, I can’t believe this actually happened to you. You are definitely a bigger person than me, I would have absolutely wrecked the fuckers office (well, I don’t sound like a phyco or anything)
My ex did that ghosting shit, after 3 months, he spent half a weekend with me and then dissappeared. no text, no calls, no nothing. when didn’t contact me on my birthday i looked his ass about up on Facebook and found out he had a girlfriend 10 days after he left my house on a Sunday morning. so no real closure and hurt like hell.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I really don’t understand why the thought to do this even occurs to some people, it is absolutely disgusting and disrespectful! Everyone deserves to be told that they are no longer in a relationship and should be given an honest answer as to why. Again, I am so sorry but thank you for sharing your story
I do have some good news after that crap happened I did meet a nicer more mature and much cuter guy.
That’s great! To be honest, someone who ghosts people is hardly going to find a meaningful relationship!
Good on you that you found someone so much better
I think this happens a lot. People just “drop out” and stop calling, texting, emailing, etc.
That’s so horrible; especially if you’ve been with someone for a while! Surely it’s actually more hassle for them as the person they are ignoring will call/text/email them more whereas if they just broke up with them properly they would leave them alone!