The night before camping! Sunday, Sep 2 2012 

Hey guys, so, yesterday I went on the bar crawl I was all on about, it was pretty good except Judas got rather moody for some reason, I don’t really know or care to be honest.

Anyway, today we were going to go buy all the stuff we needed to go camping and Judas rings me up at about 11am- Now, after a night out that in itself is rather unreasonable. I pick up and she starts yelling at me like proper YELLING about where she should get her tent, what was going on and all these bloody questions!  Now, you would think that a university student with a car would be capable of getting a tent, especially since we all live so close to a town centre!

Now, I try to reply calmly that I am not even awake and in no way know what is going on. Then she gets really angry and starts screaming even more that I organised it and am not making the plan go to shit:

A) I did not organise the trip, my boyfriend did

B) She is so far up his arse she would never shout or even talk in any way which wasn’t pathetic to him

C) No one else got shouted at, out of the seven of us going I knew exactly what they all knew.

So, I get off the phone after she screams some more and start crying- yes, pathetic I know but I am absolutely rubbish with people shouting at me; I just cannot deal with that AT ALL- my boyfriend is a bit rubbish in the comforting department and tries to make up all these excuses for her: however, as updated in this blog this is now the THIRD time she has been out of order with me for no fault of my own, she can’t have a bloody excuse for each of those times.

A few minutes later she texts saying that

she’s not going camping. She sends this to my boyfriend, now, as crazy as I may sound saying this but I think it was just for attention. I honestly think she did it so she would be persuaded to go, this is further backed up by the fact that when she got no reply from him she suddenly texts saying ‘what’s the plan for today then?’ I THOUGHT YOU WEREN’T GOING, I WAS SO BLOODY HAPPY. The thing is, I have truly taken a  very negative view of her, I mean, I think she’s controlling, meddling and just plain mean!

She rang me and my boyfriend several times. We ignored all the calls.

She was in charge of getting tents for everyone with a mate who’s also going: she didn’t get shit and for some reason stalked us to the shop where we were getting food. She then dropped the mate off and left. I didn’t speak to her the whole time she was there. He said that apparently she was on the phone the whole day trying to find someone who would go in her place.

This made me so happy.

However, she then texted another friend telling him to bring lots of cigarettes.

Can she just stop doing things for attention and decide if she’s bloody going, it’s not hard.

She also refuses to give us money for the food and alcohol we bought for everyone.

I hope she doesn’t go to be honest. I think it would be an absolutely amazing trip if she didn’t, if she does I know I’ll just be so on edge and we’ll end up having a fight and that will just ruin it for us and the others.

I really think she has a hidden agenda. I just need to find it.

Anyway, fingers crossed she doesn’t go!

I’ll try to keep you guys posted during my camping stint!

In other news:

Question 2: If you had to be any animal but have the capacity of a human mind which animal would you be?

Answer 2: I think I would want to be something ferocious like a lioness as I would then have incredible strength plus the intelligence of a human. However, thinking about it, if I was an animal I’d probably want to change sex as well as species as then I would be the head of some amazing tribe as I would formulate tactics that were just incredible for animals to do! I wouldn’t want to be hunted by humans though?

Leave your responses guys!

I will reply to the last ones, I think I hear my boyfriend getting out of the bath though so I am rather rushed at the moment!

I MISS BLOGGING MORE!

Grace x

He’s coming over Monday, Aug 27 2012 

So, my boyfriend rang.

He’s locked out of his dad’s so he’s coming over to mine now as he was coming tomorrow anyway.

I told him how angry I was about what my ‘friend’ said.

He said he thought that she just wanted to spend time with everyone so wanted him to get off the phone.

Well, making someone cry to achieve that is just disgusting. I also don’t think she meant what she said as innocently as she said. I think she was being a bitch. 

So, he’s coming over.

I’m in a bit of a foul mood, but hopefully we will have a good night.

She disgusts me.

Well, haha, who’s he coming home to? Guess what, he’s staying here.

Also, your comments about him not being able to see me as much as he did last year at university was evil, and yes, yes he will see me as much.

Fuck you.

It’s our relationship. Input not needed. Goodbye

Sorry for the rant guys! I feel better though!

Grace x

OH MY GOD! Sunday, Aug 26 2012 

WOW I am so fucking angry, I have fucking tears in my eyes! What the fuck!

So, I ring my boyfriend to check if he’s going to be home tomorrow and he tells me he’s rung me three times wondering if I want to come to a shisha bar. Now, I’m like oh, how long are you going to be there etc.and this girl, who I thought was my friend, lets call her Judas, says

“Oh, there’s no point her coming as we’ll be leaving soon”

Now, this is fine by me, except somehow, she managed to pick up my boyfriend from his house and drive him there but cannot pick me up to drive me there, the person who is supposed to be her friend.

So, I have a little huff on the phone to my boyfriend, as said before I shall be calling him Jeff, and he doesn’t seem to understand what the problem is. Basically, I am confused since he said he was really busy with family things today and is now all of a sudden with her. He also has practically no money except for the money I have lent him but can go to these expensive shisha places.

Now, at this point I am already rather pissed and I KNOW they will not be leaving soon and I KNOW that they will be there for a long time but whatever I can deal with that. On the phone I am actually rather mature and civil and am only confused by how fifteen minutes have made such a difference!

Then (you actually won’t believe this), Judas decides to take the phone off Jeff and start questioning me as to 

“Why are you having a hissy fit at Jeff?”

EXCUSE ME? DID YOU HEAR THE CONVERSATION? IS JEFF SOME KIND OF TINY ANIMAL WHO CANNOT DEFEND HIMSELF? IN FACT, WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO GET ON THE PHONE AND START TELLING ME NOT TO HAVE A HISSY FIT AT MY BOYFRIEND ( a hissy fit which I was not even having)? 

Right, so she asks me once and I (calmly) say:

“I am not having a hissy fit at Jeff”

“Well, yeah, you are” she says

“Well no I’m not”

“Yeah, you are”

“Well, did you even hear the conversation? How would you know?”

“Whatever, I’ll pass you back over to Jeff”

I am fuming at this point in time, I mean, what he just stood there and let her speak to me like that, who the hell is she to interfere? Are you trying to pretend to be the ‘cool’ one or something? Trying to make me out to be the phyco girlfriend? 

This just reminds me of a post I read a few days ago:

 http://emnegron.wordpress.com/2012/08/18/do-the-math/

It was entitled 1+1 doesn’t equal 3.

So true, it doesn’t! I don’t even know how to react to this, she didn’t even hear the bloody conversation, and I was NOT having a ‘hissy fit’ (which I think is quite a disgusting way of saying I was angry even if I acted like I was). Yes, I was a bit confused and annoyed at the fact that he had said he’d be with family and was now out and with someone who basically uninvited me. These issues are between us however, they are not for someone to take his phone and start questioning me. Bitch.

Grace x